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Why VERY INTELLIGENT Men Fail With BBW

Introduction

I’ve been teaching men how to become more successful with dating BBW for a several years now… and one major issue just keeps popping up OVER AND OVER AGAIN…

…and it’s really astounds me!

I’m going to name it “The Genius Failure Paradox”.

“The Genius Failure Paradox” is the tendency for abnormally intelligent men to have astonishingly little success with BBW and dating.

After contemplating this paradox, discussing it and working on it for a breathtaking amount of time, I’d finally like to share my thoughts with you.

If you’ve read this far, I’m assuming you probably see yourself as a little bit smarter than the average man.

You KNOW you’re a little different from other men.

In fact, you probably realized at a young age that you saw everything differently from other kids.

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And you’ve probably realized at some point, that your smart mind gives you an advantage over others in many aspects of your life… as such, you’ve probably become used to BEING RIGHT.

Smart people get into the habit of being “right”, simply because they usually ARE right.

And unsurprisingly, when you’re RIGHT more often than others, you can actually get ahead in many situations.

But unfortunately this sharp mind of yours is probably worse than useless when it comes to a crucial area of life, one that most men will never get right:

BBW AND DATING.

Just out of interest, I did say WORSE than useless.

It’s actually like having a hammer, but you need to tighten a screw. If you use the tool you have for that particular job, you’ll just make the situation WORSE.

It’s hard for a smart guy to imagine a situation where his smart mind could DAMAGE his chances for success.

But trust me: this IS such a situation.

So open up your smart mind, and let me share with you the ten reasons why smart guys fail with BBW… and what you can do about it.

REASON #1: THEY’RE WRONG, BUT THEY CAN’T OR WON’T SEE AND ADMIT IT

I mentioned that smart guys are used to being RIGHT most of the time.

And most smart guys, when they come across a situation where they’re WRONG, just find a new situation… one that fits their strength.

They know they won’t be wrong next time, so they just walk away, assuming that it won’t be long before they find they’re right again.

(OR, they just let the “problem situation” destroy them… but more on that later.)

Well, the pain in the ass about being WRONG when it comes to BBW and dating is THERE’S NOWHERE TO HIDE.

There’s no quick fix or “I’m right” situation around the next corner that’s gonna make you feel better.

It only takes being “wrong” with a few BBW in a row, for a smart man to see the pattern… and realize that something JUST ISN’T WORKING.

The solution? Think harder.

A smart guy just assumes that his logic MUST be “right”… so he just keeps on thinking harder and harder about it.

But success doesn’t happen, it really starts to become a burden.

Accepting that you’re just wrong is an extremely difficult thing for a “smart guy”.

Accepting that not only are you wrong, but you have NO CLUE WHERE TO START in order to be RIGHT, is even more tricky.

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REASON #2: THEY’RE ARROGANT AND BLIND

As such, many extremely smart guys come up with the following LOGICAL conclusion, which they assume must be right:

I AM A SMART GUY, SO IF I CAN’T FIGURE OUT HOW TO HAVE SUCCESS WITH BBW, THEN THE PROBLEM MUST EITHER BE UNSOLVABLE OR NOT WORTH SOLVING.

Can you say “Self-defeating idea”?

REASON #2: THEY’RE ARROGANT AND BLIND

In short, many smart guys refuse to accept that a genuine, solid, workable answer could come from someone “less intelligent” than them, so they discount any such idea before trying it.

Let me ask you this:

If you were going to be walking across Africa, through the desert, would you rather have your guide be the guy on this planet with the highest I.Q., or an early caveman who lived a million years ago, who had an I.Q. of about 10, but who grew up being chased by lions and foraging for food?

It’s a very interesting question.

Now, I hope you’d like to have the guide who isn’t the smartest guy around… but who has escaped from many dangerous situations with deadly animals and fended for themselves in the wild…

If you’d like to learn how to be more successful with BBW, would you take dating advice from a world-renowned professor of nuclear physics, or a guy who perhaps isn’t very intelligent, but who knows how to attract BBW?

There’s something about being smart that makes some men unwilling to accept ideas or instruction from anyone who isn’t either as smart or smarter than them.

Well, surely any SMART GUY could see the lunacy in this particular approach… once it’s examined closely.

If you’ve been making this particular mistake, then you need to stop it soon. Swallow your pride, deflate your ego. Stop being arrogant, and open your eyes.

Look around.

Take lessons from a few “dumb” guys… and they will teach you how to get what you REALLY want.

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REASON #3: LACKING SOCIAL SKILLS

It really amazes me just how many “smart” guys there are who just don’t understand basic social skills.

It’s as if they have logically decided that social skills are made for lower beings that need to always be playing games with each other… and that it’s not worth the time it would take learning them.

I honestly believe that there are a lot of smart guys on this planet who don’t even have ANY “social skills” or have “being a cool guy that people like” in their “MENTAL MODEL” of what they might possibly need in order to be successful with BBW.

Social skills are just as described: SKILLS.

They aren’t social INFORMATION.

They aren’t social THEORIES.

They are social SKILLS.

And as such, you don’t get them by THINKING about getting them. You don’t learn them logically, like mathematics. You get them by GETTING them.

Excellent social skills are the ESSENTIAL foundation for basic healthy communication with other human beings – if you don’t have good social skills, you are dramatically lowering your chances for success with dating BBW.

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REASON #4: THEY SABOTAGE THEMSELVES

Smart men do something that intrigues the hell out of me…

They come up with all the myriad reasons why things WON’T WORK when it comes to the opposite sex.

They actually figure out for themselves, before even trying, why what they would like to do will probably fail or backfire…

They use their powerful creative imaginations to think up all kinds of terrifying scenes… and then they use those imaginary outcomes to form negative emotions… which ultimately stop them from having the success with BBW they desire.

THEY DON’T EVEN BOTHER TRYING.

Of course, if you have thought something through, and have come up with a good reason why it would fail, it makes sense to not do it, right?

I mean, why would you want to do something that you know is going to fail?

It’s sound logical, but let’s face it, it’s incredibly destructive thinking when it comes to real life… and success with BBW and dating.

Because smart guys don’t GET IT with BBW, and they don’t GET IT with what it takes to be successful with BBW, they are working with bad figures: in fact they’re wrong even before they even start figuring!

Using your brain to think up all the reasons why things will fail in this area of your life will lead to ULTIMATE FAILURE.

You must learn to overcome this bad habit, if you have it.

REASON #5: THEY ONLY SEEK “INFORMATIONAL SOLUTIONS”

What does a smart guy do when he runs into a problem… or he needs to figure something out?

He immediately searches for INFORMATION to help him find a solution.

MORE INFORMATION is always his answer.

Information is the friend of a smart guy.

Got a strange virus on your computer? Just hop on the internet and search for how to eliminate it.

Don’t know how to change the blinker on your car? No problem: just dig out the manual and turn to page 146.

Looking for the definition of a word you don’t recognise? No problem! Open up your dictionary.

MORE INFORMATION always solves the problem.

So what do smart guys logically do when it comes to overcoming problems with BBW?

They seek out more INFORMATION.

They assume the answer lies in learning MORE TECHNIQUES, more MAGIC CONCEPTS that will fix the solution, like the blinker of their car.

But what if there was a situation in the smart guy’s life where getting more information actually made things WORSE?

I mean, how would you even work out that it was indeed making things worse?

I don’t want to suggest whatsoever that learning more about how to be successful with BBW is a bad thing. It’s genuinely not.

But if you’ve got a problem that’s EMOTIONAL in nature, then reading five thousand theories on it probably won’t help you much.

You will need to get out into the REAL WORLD and try some stuff, and see how it works!

When it comes to BBW and dating, there’s a very good chance that you have MORE than enough “information” in that head of yours.

Smart guys often use all the “more information” they seek out, to distract them from actually TAKING ACTION.

I refer to this as “Creative Avoidance”.

Nod silently to yourself if you’ve ever figured out a creative way to avoid facing something that causes you stress or anxiety in your life.

REASON #6: THEY FOCUS ON LOGIC AND REASON, INSTEAD OF EMOTION

NEWSFLASH: BBW don’t feel basic level ATTRACTION for men who make them THINK about stuff.

They feel ATTRACTION for men who make them FEEL something.

So what do most smart guys attempt to do when they first meet a woman they find attractive?

You got it!

They get into a LOGICAL CONVERSATION with her, in an attempt to WOO her with the sheer power of their mind.

Of course they don’t realize that they’re SHOOTING THELSEVES IN THE FOOT by doing it!

A monkey sitting at a typewriter will type the collected works of Shakespeare before you will make an attractive single woman feel ATTRACTION for you by engaging her in logical intelligent conversation.

Every time you start a logical conversation with a woman you’ve just met, you are basically wearing a big sign on your head that flashes “I DON’T GET BBW”.

Typical “logical” conversations include talking about politics, religion, work, family and jobs… and anything that has to do with mathematics, science, etc.

On the other hand, if you start talking to a woman and you ask her “OK, tell me, why is it that all girls say that they want sweet, reliable, nice guys… but they date macho, selfish bad boys?” (and if you then find a way to make fun of any answer she gives) well guess what? You’re having an EMOTIONAL conversation. You’re engaging her on an EMOTIONAL level.

If you don’t get what I’m talking about, I suggest you keep reading. You may need more help than I thought.

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